What options are available to me after my death, and how do I choose—and make sure my wishes are followed? Grief is the breath after the last one. Deepak Chopra has touched millions of readers by demystifying our deepest spiritual concerns while retaining their poetry and wonder.
Now he turns to the most profound mystery: What happens after we die? Is this one question we were not meant to answer, a riddle whose solution the universe keeps to itself?
In Life After Death, Chopra draws on cutting-edge scientific discoveries and the great wisdom traditions to provide a map of the afterlife. But far more important is his urgent message: Who you meet in the afterlife and what you experience there reflect your present beliefs, expectations, and level of awareness. In the here and now you can shape what happens after you die. By bringing the afterlife into the present moment, Life After Death opens up an immense new area of creativity.
Ultimately there is no division between life and death—there is only one continuous creative project. Chopra invites us to become cocreators in this subtle realm, and as we come to understand the one reality, we shed our irrational fears and step into a numinous sense of wonder and personal power. By the time Nate Fisher was laid to rest in a woodland grave sans coffin in the final season of Six Feet Under, Americans all across the country were starting to look outside the box when death came calling. Grave Matters follows families who found in "green" burial a more natural, more economic, and ultimately more meaningful alternative to the tired and toxic send-off on offer at the local funeral parlor.
Eschewing chemical embalming and fancy caskets, elaborate and costly funerals, they have embraced a range of natural options, new and old, that are redefining a better American way of death. Environmental journalist Mark Harris examines this new green burial underground, leading you into natural cemeteries and domestic graveyards, taking you aboard boats from which ashes and memorial "reef balls" are cast into the sea.
He follows a family that conducts a home funeral, one that delivers a loved one to the crematory, and another that hires a carpenter to build a pine coffin. In the morbidly fascinating tradition of Stiff, Grave Matters details the embalming process and the environmental aftermath of the standard funeral. Harris also traces the history of burial in America, from frontier cemeteries to the billion-dollar business it is today, reporting on real families who opted for more simple, natural returns.
For readers who want to follow the examples of these families and, literally, give back from the grave, appendices detail everything you need to know, from exact costs and laws to natural burial providers and their contact information. Written at the age of 84, in the twilight of life, these meditations each approach the human understanding of death from different yet intertwined perspectives, effortlessly returning to certain themes and ideas, questioning them again more deeply with each passing.
He examines his experience of ancestor worship in his native China and the beliefs that underlies it: Our ancestors are alive in another form, that what is living can never die and what is dead has never lived. Cheng looks at the consequences of a world that has abandoned the sacred and avoids the mention of death, a world now blindly staggering through the chaos it has created, yet which can return to balance if we once again embrace the essential sacredness of life as well as death. Throughout these five heart-baring meditations, Cheng invites us to contemplate life in the light of our own death.
He reveals that to be conscious of death gives our fate its full meaning. Our death is an integral part of our great adventure in becoming. For if birth is a seed, then death is the fruit--the final sacred product of a life well lived. A charming, practical, and unsentimental approach to putting a home in order while reflecting on the tiny joys that make up a long life.
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Her radical and joyous method for putting things in order helps families broach sensitive conversations, and makes the process uplifting rather than overwhelming. Along the way readers get a glimpse into her life in Sweden, and also become more comfortable with the idea of letting go. The miracle is that in doing so he was able to compose this stunningly eloquent memoir. In a voice that is by turns wistful and mischievous, angry and sardonic, Bauby gives us a celebration of the liberating power of consciousness: what it is like to spend a day with his children, to imagine lying in bed beside his wife, to conjure up the flavor of delectable meals even as he is fed through at tube.
Most of all, this triumphant book lets us witness an indomitable spirit and share in the pure joy of its own survival. Zonnebelt-Smeenge, Ed. This sensitive and biblically oriented book offers a roadmap for bereaved spouses on the journey through grief to resolution. Excellent for pastors, too. Confusion, bewilderment, and a lack of direction commonly surface in the aftermath of a death.
Auz and Maureen Lyons Andrews offer concise, practical, topic-based lists and suggestions to help people immediately after a loss.
Every seventeen minutes, someone in the United States dies by suicide. It is one of the most serious public health crises of modern times, claiming over one million lives worldwide every year. Those who have lost a loved one to suicide experience tremendous shock and trauma, with a confusing mix of emotions--anger, guilt, grief and despair. Suicide also raises heartrending questions: Why did this happen? Why didn't we see it coming? Many also wonder if those who choose suicide are doomed to an eternity separated from God and loved ones.
Some may even start asking whether life is worth living at all. After his father's death by suicide, Albert Hsu wrestled with the intense emotional and spiritual questions surrounding suicide. While acknowledging that there are no easy answers, Hsu draws on the resources of the Christian faith to point suicide survivors to the God who offers comfort in our grief and hope for the future. If you have lost a loved one to suicide or provide pastoral care to those left behind, this book is an essential companion for the journey toward healing.
He promises that, with an open heart and mind ready to receive, anyone can recognize the signs that spirits of the departed may be trying to send. Signs from the Other Side offers an in-depth explanation of how Bill does what he does, as well as practical advice on how to receive and interpret signs when they appear. By tapping into our intuition, we can experience deep connections that lead to forgiveness, reassurance, or simply one last moment with a loved one.
The book also includes more than twenty inspiring examples of how others experienced comfort through such communications. How to Stop the Pain James B. We all experience pain! Every day millions of people live in a world of heartache. Every day exhumes the pain you try to bury. It cripples your relationships with people, God, and life itself.
It destroys your ability to pursue your dreams. This paradigm-shattering book will free you from the forces that would turn you into a victim. It will lead you step-by-step through a simple process that will free you from the pain of the past and protect you from the pain of the future. Discover the emotional freedom that everyone wants but few experienceBreak the secret link to the pain of the pastIdentify the number one source of sufferingNever be hurt by another insultLearn the only biblical way to prevent painFree yourself from the need to judge othersExperience freedom from criticism.
How do you survive this? Can you Shattered: Surviving the Loss of a Child was written to help. Shattered unpacks the depth of this loss, describing how Symptoms surface. Our health can be impacted. Illness can invade. Guilt shakes us. What we believe gets challenged. Marriage, family, and friendships feel the impact. The future has changed. We're in uncharted territory. Yes, the loss of a child affects everything. In Shattered, you will discover how you can If you are a grieving parent or grandparent, this book was written for you.
Shattered was a Best Book Awards Finalist. Having experienced grief from both sides—as both a therapist and as a woman who witnessed the accidental drowning of her beloved partner—Megan writes with deep insight about the unspoken truths of loss, love, and healing. We all sit on the edge of a mystery. We have only known this life, so dying scares us—and we are all dying.
But what if dying were perfectly safe? What would it look like if you could approach dying with curiosity and love, in service of other beings? What if dying were the ultimate spiritual practice? Ram Dass and Mirabai Bush began their friendship more than four decades ago at the foot of their guru, Neem Karoli Baba, also known as Maharaj-ji. He transmitted to them a simple philosophy: love everyone, tell the truth, and give up attachment to material things. After impacting millions of people through the years with these teachings, they have reunited once more with Walking Each Other Home to enlighten and engage readers on the spiritual opportunities within the dying process.
They generously share intimate personal experiences and timeless practices, told with courage, humor, and heart, gently exploring every aspect of this journey. The body may die, but the soul remains. Death is an invitation to a new kind of relationship, in the place where we are all One. Join these two lifelong friends and spiritual luminaries as they explore what it means to live and die consciously, remember who we really are, and illuminate the path we walk together.
No one addresses the needs of a grieving person like Doug Manning. His warm, conversational style takes the reader through all the emotions and experiences that accompany the death of a loved one. Doug helps the reader through the grief journey and provides guidance, assurances and hope for healing. Do you feel like you are barely holding on? Let the golden thread of God's presence be the calm on the other side of chaos. It could be that He is weaving a brilliant new beginning in the middle of your mess.
Many mystics know that there are ways to predict death. Inspire your life Motivate yourself Generate your inner power Ignite your Mind…………Inspire your life….. Motivate yourself……Generate your inner power! It's a collection of inspirational poems Extract from the book: What you want to do be? What you want to see? Everything depends upon your vision. Find out your reason. Every event of life is matters to you, And it asks you its demand, You must know the right command. Guide yourself in the wide direction, To succeed in your mission.
Wash your unclean eyes, Wear out your old fashion, Try to be wise. Everything, which is unseen, Now, it is visible. It is your time to walk, To get your golden luck. Visualize your ideas to the world, So that you can shine like a diamond. Contents of book: 1.
War 2. Life is full of Mysteries 3. Your vision 4. Only you can change yourself! A Heart of Mine 6. A Game 7. Human's Life 8. A Drama 9. Plan Longevity Desire Mind Conscience Patience Thought Attitude Luck Golden Ray Respect Wicket Habit Anger Jealous Falsehood Insult Relationship Bad Memories Face Smile Shyness Not everything is for us The Right way Light Your Nature Meanings of Life Laziness Idle Mind Your Task!
The Greatness Give and Take Experiences of Life Obstacles Virtues Inner-Self To Get Our Living Your Questions! Ask yourself Parts of our Life Failures Better Way Today and Yesterday If You Are Silent Sleep Accept You! Disguise Your Fight Your Thoughts Love Keep Busy! The Blowing Air Born and Die People Take Sometime Yourself The Blooming Flower I Thank You!
You Can See Love Yourself! Why Not You! You are born to be Wise! Love is a Prayer The Law of Natural Ordination You will never regain it! In search of life Under Your Feet Rub your tears The Smiling Lady For Your Next Mission The Little Candle Never Forget Mirror Love is Music The Flying Feather Hunger Like a Bicycle Like an Egg Agony of Life Wait for the Right Season A Blooming Flower Life is action and reaction Good Things will come to you Change Yourself Grow Your Life Everyday The Wandering Seed Live your Life Inspire This book is about spiritual enlightenment and can be helpful to most of the people who want to reach to any conclusion through logic.
Whatever we thought it reflects our true identity. If our thoughts are pious, it makes us pious. If our thoughts are good, it makes us good. If our thoughts are corrupted, it makes us corrupt. Our thoughts make us divine. Our thoughts make us devil. It is because before anything happens everything begins in our thoughts. The way we thought the way we become. If our thoughts are strong, we feel strong and if our thoughts are weak, we feel weak. Our thoughts are like chemistry. It reacts with us and diffuses everywhere. Every thought impact us both internally and externally.
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Our thoughts are like the seven horses of a chariot. Therefore our thoughts need proper direction and proper guidance. It is only possible through our knowledge and wisdom. Sugar—the once-anonymous online columnist at The Rumpus, now revealed as Cheryl Strayed, author of the bestselling memoir Wild—is the person thousands turn to for advice. From the chief medical correspondent of ABC News, an eloquent, heartbreaking, yet hopeful memoir of surviving the suicide of a loved one, examining this dangerous epidemic and offering first-hand knowledge and advice to help family and friends find peace.
Jennifer Ashton, M. When her ex-husband killed himself soon after their divorce, her world—and that of her children—was shattered. Ashton recognized the importance of talking about her experience and the power of giving voice to her grief. She shared her story with her Good Morning America family on air—an honest, heartbreaking revelation that provided comfort and solace to others, like her and her family, who have been left behind. On Grief and Grieving is a fitting completion to her work. Now On Grief and Grieving will profoundly influence the way we experience the process of grief. On Death and Dying began as a theoretical book, an interdisciplinary study of our fear of death and our inevitable acceptance of it.
It introduced the world to the now-famous five stages: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. It includes sections on sadness, hauntings, dreams, coping, children, healing, isolation, and even the subject of sex during grief. I lie here like so many people over the years, in a bed surrounded by flowers and looking out a big window I now know that the purpose of my life is more than these stages It is not just about the life lost but also the life lived. A Grief Observed C.
A classic work on grief, A Grief Observed is C. Through their stories we come to appreciate the near-miraculous ways in which the dying communicate their needs, reveal their feelings, and even choreograph their own final moments; we also discover the gifts—of wisdom, faith, and love—that the dying leave for the living to share.
Filled with practical advice on responding to the requests of the dying and helping them prepare emotionally and spiritually for death, Final Gifts shows how we can help the dying person live fully to the very end. This volume is directed towards professionals who work in the fields concerning death and dying. These professionals must perceive the needs of people with cultural patterns which are different from the "standard and dominant" patterns in the United States and Canada.
Accordingly, the book includes illustrative episodes and in-depth presentations of selected "ethnic patterns". Other chapters examine multicultural issues and provide the means for personal reflection on death and dying. There are also two bibliographic sections, one general and one geared towards children. Matt and Liz Logelin were high school sweethearts. After years of long-distance dating, the pair finally settled together in Los Angeles, and they had it all: a perfect marriage, a gorgeous new home, and a baby girl on the way.
Liz's pregnancy was rocky, but they welcomed Madeline, beautiful and healthy, into the world. Just twenty-seven hours later, Liz suffered a pulmonary embolism and died instantly, without ever holding the daughter whose arrival she had so eagerly awaited. Though confronted with devastating grief and the responsibilities of a new and single father, Matt did not surrender to devastation; he chose to keep moving forward-to make a life for Maddy.
In this memoir, Matt shares bittersweet and often humorous anecdotes of his courtship and marriage to Liz; of relying on his newborn daughter for the support that she unknowingly provided; and of the extraordinary online community of strangers who have become his friends. In honoring Liz's legacy, heartache has become solace. He really is a healer. He is the real thing. The space between life and death is a moment. But it will remain alive in me for hundreds of thousands of future moments. One phone call. That's all it took to change Stephanie Wittels Wachs' life forever..
Significant loss and unresolved grief are primary underpinnings of anxiety, something that grief expert Claire Bidwell Smith discovered in her own life and in her practice with her therapy clients. The night is starry and she is not with me. This is all. In the distance someone is singing. In the distance. My soul is not satisfied that it has lost her. My sight tries to find her as though to bring her closer. My heart looks for her, and she is not with me. My voice tried to find the wind to touch her hearing. As she was before my kisses. Her voice, her bright body.
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Her infinite eyes. Love is so short, forgetting is so long. Because through nights like this one I held her in my arms my soul is not satisfied that it has lost her. Though this be the last pain that she makes me suffer and these the last verses that I write for her. Deborah, you make me blush. There are so many poems I could have shared. I began with ten and whittled to make what felt like a narrative with the poems as skeletons. I do not know this Neruda poem, although I know some others by him.
The words sing in Spanish. This exquisite poem makes me realize once again the huge world of poems and prose—so many I will never find. I love how the mystery of love and mystery of time and memory are expressed. I no longer love her. Sometimes I loved her. Maybe I love her. Deborah, when we meet someday, I hope you will read me many poems.
With love and gratitude, Elaine. Your wisdoms and beautiful poetry are truly touching Elaine. Your life experiences and grief process has helped you become the teacher for those who seek enlightenment when they walk the path that you have. And some great enlightenment for all who will some day face those same challenges.
You are a warrior. Thank you, Debby. Enlightenment is an ultimate goal after years of meditation, study, and sitting with spiritual teachers. I hope things will ease in your world soon. I will be emailing this post to two dear friends of mine Elaine who have suffered the deaths of their husbands, one by suicide and one after a long illness. As are your words, poetry too…. Thank you, Susan.
In both cases, I shared poems that most resonated with me and women in my bereavement groups. You also demonstrate that poetry continues to speak to the grieving soul, both in the raw immediacy of the loss and in the years to come. May you both find your own comfort and help others do the same, Elaine. You have found your calling. It is, Shirley. My marriage began and ended with poetry. In , Vic and I sat together on his couch while he read me poems from Walter Benton. On our last wedding anniversary about two weeks before he died, I read Vic love poems, including our favorite from Walter Benton which he had read to me 42 years earlier.
I use poems in workshops, presentations, and bereavement groups. In early grief, I needed a reflection of my raw longing and confusion. More gentle poetry needed now. Thank you for your encouraging words, Shirley. Wonderful post, Elaine. The part about going into grief, instead of running away from it, spoke to me. I suddenly had a new insight. Coupled with grief comes fear of the pain grief entails — there are two major emotions at once. Thank you, Ann Marie. Trying to avoid pain has become natural for modern people who imagine a pain-free life, but our ancestors turned grief into a spiritual experience.
Soon after Vic died I was so deeply immersed in sorrow that I feared I would never surface again. But I kept perspective and remembered the women in war zones or in natural disaster who lost their children, their husbands, their homes, their history, everything. When I stayed with my feelings and felt my longing, I also felt deep love and gratitude. Thank you for all the poems, Elaine.
Big questions, Robin. Yes to hope. Beautiful, Elaine. As you know, we share a love of poetry—and Mary Oliver in particular. I used the Guest House by Rumi in my book and still hold it as one of the most profound poems on grief every written—without being about grief: Much love to you, Therese. Thank you, Therese. Yes, we share a love of poetry and much more. That was a tumultuous testing time for you.
Some have helped and many have not. In your case and in mine, we have to settle in for prolonged visits from difficult guests and do all we can to encourage healing. Much love back to you. Yes, wonderful post. I agree with you, and all the poets. David Whyte illustrates for us that we can breath deeply even when we feel breathless. That there is fruit to eat when your hunger is for something even deeper than food.
Neruda— I read this poem and now want to run to kiss my wife. Thanks for your other comments, too, Ira. Perhaps you may feel the same. Your life with Vic enlarged you in ways that now enable you to live in a larger world. I see your influence expanding in wider and wider ripples. It fits with the theme, Marian. Thank you. David Whyte expresses human truths in a language we all hear. My ripples are small, but it is nice to watch them move in various directions.
Elaine, thanks so much for pointing me to this page, which I have visited 3 times and read fully each time. I think the poem that has helped me in grief is this one following. From blossoms comes this brown paper bag of peaches we bought from the boy at the bend in the road where we turned toward signs painted Peaches.
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From laden boughs, from hands, from sweet fellowship in the bins, comes nectar at the roadside, succulent peaches we devour, dusty skin and all, comes the familiar dust of summer, dust we eat. O, to take what we love inside, to carry within us an orchard, to eat not only the skin, but the shade, not only the sugar, but the days, to hold the fruit in our hands, adore it, then bite into. There are days we live as if death were nowhere in the background; from joy to joy to joy, from wing to wing, from blossom to blossom to impossible blossom, to sweet impossible blossom.
BOA Editions Ltd. How beautiful, Kim. Thank you for taking the time to read, comment, and share this poem. You remind me to read more of his work. At least two of his books are on my shelf. I felt fortunate that my husband died in June because when I returned home the fields were purple-blue with thousands of flowering lupines. Then, as I took three or so walks a day with my dog, the summer unfolded with birds, butterflies, and constantly changing flowers. Everything that begins must end. Ive held grief for many things in my life for 51 years.
Where can I find more? Much love to you Lori Hodo. Hi Lori, You landed on my blog. I hope you have lots of support in releasing that pain. Warmly, Elaine.